Why It's Wonderful News That It's Up to You
One of the most frequently asked questions I get is, "Why should it just be up to me to work on our relationship? Shouldn't we both be trying to improve things? It feels unfair..." I know it can be hard to wrap your mind around what a huge amount of influence you have over how loving and mutually supportive your relationship can feel, because it's not what we're taught. But I strongly believe that (and witness all the time), rather than it being burdensome that the change is