Hannah Brooks Marriage Coaching
               

One of the most frequently asked questions I get is, "Why should it just be up to me to work on our relationship? Shouldn't we both be trying to improve things? It feels unfair..." I know it can be hard to wrap your mind around what a huge amount of influence you have over how loving and mutually supportive your relationship can feel, because it's not what we're taught. But I strongly believe that (and witness all the time), rather than it being burdensome that the change is

You are my hero. You really are. Because you are taking the time to read this. You are giving your precious energy towards improving your relationship. And this is true world-healing work. Why do I say this? Why do I genuinely believe this? I will tell you why. It has been a heart wrenching week or two for me. As a sensitive spirit, I know you know what that feels like. Grief. Hurt. Anger. Sadness. Honestly, it’s hard to look out into the world and not feel that sometimes (or