Hannah Brooks Marriage Coaching
EVER WISH YOUR COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP FELT MORE ALIVE WITH LOVE, CONNECTION, AND A DEEP SENSE OF SUPPORTIVENESS? I see you, sensitive one.
SINCE YOU'RE HERE, MY HUNCH IS...
You feel something is lacking in your marriage... you feel more dull and dissatisfied than in love-like some vibrancy is missing...
Maybe you feel irritated, often disconnected, disappointed, prickly, even easily hurt and less loved and valued than you want to.
Resentments crop up here and there, and communication between you and your spouse tends to be lacking vitality and lightness-- or it sparks discord and distance.
You feel like the love between you is fading…
Even though you want to feel the aliveness and love of the earlier days—but with even more security – right now you feel discouraged and like things between you may never change.
But listen: THINGS CAN CHANGE.
Because, as as sensitive woman, you were born for having the best marriage possible.
IT’S JUST THAT YOU’VE FALLEN INTO A VERY NORMAL PHASE (THAT SO MANY PEOPLE FALL INTO) IN YOUR MARRIAGE–
A PHASE I CALL DISENCHANTMENT.
And YOU’RE NOT ALONE.
Unfortunately so many couples get STUCK here–and end up miserable --or divorced. I don't want that for you.
And it doesn't have to be that way for YOU.
I’ve helped hundreds of women move beyond this disheartening phase – and into a much more deeply alive and loving experience of their marriage.
IIT’S TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE THROUGH AND OUT OF DISENCHANTMENT, TOO––AND INTO A VIBRANT LOVE THAT LASTS FOR THE LONG-HAUL.
(Want to learn more about all this> PODCAST LINK)
"When I first started with Hannah there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point. It just blows my mind it's so good!” ~Donna, Client
You CAN feel RE-enchanted again with your partner–and he with you.
You can get out of this hard time you’re in and FEEL your significant other loving you more deeply and genuinely than ever— like you are a true treasure to him–with all your sensitive humanness…
You can feel like he’s a treasure, too, and that you are in love with him again!
You can have that lasting, deep, alive love that encompasses ALL of who each of you are.
And I know You've probably already tried some things to improve things: read relationship books, been listening to podcasts, tried communicating better, maybe even been in therapy or couples counseling, or done some trauma healing.
This has all been useful--and it’s gotten you ready to make the change once and for all, (which is such a wonderful place to be, and I hope you’re proud of coming this far!)
But... all that work hasn't gotten you feeling bone-deep secure and super loved and loving in your marriage. It hasn’t given you an unshakable sense of treasuring and being treasured in your marriage.
You may think the reason you're disenchanted is ...
...because you're so sensitive (you've been told you're “too sensitive” time and again –and so you think that may be so.)--and it's causing issues in your marrige...
....OR maybe it feels like your husband's fault: you notice lots of little things he’s doing wrong or not well enough: He doesn’t talk to the kids in the kind way you do, he’s aloof or grumpy with you when he’s stressed, he doesn’t do enough to make you feel precious to him he’s too insensitive (my clients and I joke about this all the time–but it often feels true !).…
Truth is, neither of you is the problem.
The reason you've gotten stuck in this disenchanment phase is, simply by living in our culture, all of us have inherited so many messages and approaches to intimate relationships that go directly against having a truly lasting love in our marriages.
Messages that are PLAIN WRONG. And it's costing us our marriages.
quick vidoe?the we’ve been fed the message that great love just happens, that it should come easily or it's the wrong match. /societl/familial condituning, pattering form childhhod, old traumas, weve all inhereited some SHIT from past gereratoins that is playin gout currently...ongoignly..NOW in our relaitnshisps.
The truth is, you just haven't UNLEARNED these approaches that keeps you from vibrant love--and you haven’t BEEN TAUGHT what it takes to keep it vibrant.
You haven't YET been taught how to access the huge power of influence you have, as a highly sensitive woman, to stay ENCHANTED and in love with the very REAL human your partner turned out to be…and to feel truly treasured by your partner….
So that, instead of fading away, the quality of connection and love at the heart of your marriage expands and deepens over time.
There are only 3 THINGS you need to be able to get good at to make your marriage come back alive with deeper love than ever
Love and believe in the being you are (sensitivity and all)
Know how to move through and out of negative emotions (that hurt love if stuck in them)
Know how to Move into emotions that foster love and connection that keeps increasing
That’s It. It’s SIMPLE...But everything flows from here: the actions you need to take to be well in yourself and to connect with your partner effectively and deeply, the communication that works and builds loving intimacy, the ability to problem solve and grow your love even more over time — ALL come from developing your capacity to do these 3 things!
It's just time to learn...
The good news it’s not COMPLICATED to do..
These things are simple…But not necessarily easy.
It takes developing EMOTIONAL AGENCY to do these 3 things! Which means you’re going to have to learn how to take charge of your own brain, your own thinking, your own emotions, and work with your nervous system so you can always feel safe, significant, in love and loved. So you can show up as the amazing partner you really are. . . regardless of how your partner is showing up.
THIS IS WHEN you have the conditions for him to treat you in the most loving best ways possible and THE relationship can really shift into a culture of safety, love, and joyful intimacy.
A 6 month intimate group program for highly sensitive women to enliven your marriage with deeper love than ever
AND YOU ARE IN THE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT PLACE TO LEARN ALL OF THAT, MY FRIEND!
INTRODUCING. . .
When you participate in this proven process, we take it step by basic step, building these essential emotional and relationship skills one simple shift at a time.
Until you look up and realize you feel better than ever in your marriage-and in yourSELF.
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING:
"I can't get over how beautiful our relationship is now after these months with Hannah. It's almost surreal. It's almost like we are totally different people now. Neither of us imagined we'd ever be in this place. Our relationship is so strong and so deep now. We've come to a place where we truly GET each other. We even lovingly deal with conflict. It’s incredible.
Sam, Past Client, Canada
"When we first started there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point. It just blows my mind it's so good!”
Donna, Past Client, AU
"I laugh all the time these days with my partner. I couldn't have imagined it before but now every day is Joy filled.
"I'm feeling so good in my relationship, words cannot describe! I'm just filled with so much gratitude and love. I cannot think Hannah enough for the profound impact her coaching has had on my life.
I got so much more out of working with you for months than I did out of years of therapy! Things now are really, really good with my partner, better than ever. We have been showing each other so much love and tenderness, and things just feel so much easier and lighter.
I’m not as likely to get in a funky mood as before because I tend to my emotions better as they arise...I’m much more confident in myself, less prone to jealousy and have more self-love, a lot less self-judgement. I’m not as anxious about things overall.
All this and more translates to my relationship! He says the sweetest things about being so grateful to be with me and how we can even turn a bad moment around.
Lauren, Past Client
WHEN YOU COMMIT TO SHOWING UP AND DOING THE WORK, BY THE TIME WE WRAP UP 6 MONTHS FROM NOW YOU WILL FEEL SUCH JOY AND PRIDE THAT YOU WERE ABLE TO TURN THIS MARRIAGE AROUND AND ABOUT HOW YOU NOW:
Wake up and realize one morning that you haven’t had a divisive argument or had your feelings hurt in months–and instead that you feel lightheartedness with each other, frequent smiles and laughter and easy connection as the norm.
. . . Look at him across the dinner table while he’s blabbing on about this or that and being struck by the sweetest heart swelling feeling of just loving this guy and being lucky to have him.
. . . FEel attraction, connection, and sexiness again so you can Make love with a sense of genuine connection and true pleasure like you haven’t felt in years.
. . Communicate 90% more effectively so you can get to understandings, resolve long-standing issues, and come out the other side feeling close and excited for your future together!
. . Hear your husband tell you you’re the best thing that ever happened to him and that you keep teaching him in the most important ways (or just Look at him every
Feel Like you are SUMPTUOUS TREASURE TO YOUR PARTNER --AS HE IS TO YOU…Like YOUR MARRIAGE IS A TRUE GEM.
. . Always know how to feel unshakable security, ease, connection, and love in your marriage–even if your hubby is in busy-mode for a few weeks, gets grumpy, or you have a conflict.
. . . Feel the daily challenges of living are faced supportively together, and the daily to dos get done with ease and collaboration.
Treasured isn't more of what you've already tried.
And that's why it will change everything.
Unlike some programs that focus only on strategies (which will only get you so far), in The 4 Pillars of the Treasured process
we focus on BOTH:
The most essential strategies that are proven to revitalize and maintain lasting love.
AND the deeper foundational internal emotional work that makes it easy and natural to know just what to do and say to deepen the loving connection you want with your partner.
The best part? You'll do all of this without becoming "less" sensitive, being more stoic, being a “better” person, or trying to get your husband to change (isn't that exhausting!?)!
Instead you will learn how to harness the power of your SENSITIVITY to re-enchant your marriage with love. Because that's an innate gift of an highly sensitive woman. You just need to learn to use it.
HERE ARE THE GOLDEN SKILLS YOU WILL DEVELOP AS YOU MOVE THROUGH EACH PILLAR:
IN PILLAR 1 YOU DEVELOP DEEP SENSITIVE AWARENESS
So you can experience your sensitivity as an asset and start using it to make your marriage better today.
~Understand how sensitivity is actually an asset in love, and how to start tapping into it to make your marriage way better than average.
~Understand and honor your unique needs as a sensitive woman so you can be the loving and loved person you want to be.
~Discover exactly where your unhappiness and lack of fulfillment is really coming from so you can actually shift unhealthy patterns in your relationship right away
~Deepen your self-understanding, self-integrity, and begin to build an unshakable sense self-assurance and confidence—so you can feel you always have someone on your side who loves and supports you through thick and thin.
IN PILLAR 2 YOU OWN YOUR POWER
So you can feel how much power of influence you have to make your marriage
loving and supportive
~Become an empowered and loving advocate for yourself and your relationship, and deliberately get into action to give the two of you the best chance to thrive.
~Learn the key reasons you and your partner have been sabotaging the good thing you once had, how to stop doing it now by breaking down the barriers to deeply loving and being loved by your partner.
~Cultivate acceptance and compassion toward your partner and your ability to be loving, authentic, respectful and supportive-- putting to use your great gift of tenderness and empathy, and enjoy how it enhances your partner’s ability to be loving to you.
~Create clear and healthy boundaries so you can allow the other to be as they are and make empowered decisions without damaging the relationship.
~Learn where real happiness actually comes from and how much power you have to start creating more of it right away,
3) TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR FEELINGS
So you can feel calm, secure, and valued and create the conditions
for love to thrive
~Learn how to always calm or eliminate anxiety, worry, and strong reactions, so you feel deeply calm and at ease throughout the day. Because when you are feeling good, you are so enjoyable to be around (and your partner notices).
~Root out irritability, resentment, and other upsetting emotions and handle your strong feelings in the most healthy way, so you can move past conflict and upset with ease --an amazing skill for all aspects of life!
~Find healthy effective ways to get your true needs met and enhance your ability to feel safe to be seen for who you really are and receive the love you are given.
~Heal wounds around love and discover how to feel safe to let your true self be really seen, which invites your partner to feel connected to you and gives you the chance to finally feel you are loved for being 100% you.
~Take total control over how comforted, secure, loved and loving you feel in your relationship--forever.
4) LOVE ON PURPOSE
So you can feel more love, affection, and connection and make your marriage feel sweeter than ever
~Inspire your partner to want to please you and naturally show their love to you for delicious intimacy and a life of joy together.
~Invite the magical mystery and passion back into your relationship-- and keep it that way.
~ Solidify your sense of how deep your love is and the confidence that it will last and grow ever deeper over time.
~Tap into and revitalize the love and affection you once felt for your partner (but seems to have faded in the daze of daily living) so you can feel the joy of that again.
~Communicate with self-control, respect, and finesse so you can get your needs met without manipulation and both feel on the same team.
~Replace being drained by conflict with a feeling that disagreements and discussions actually support your growth and connection.
~Feel nourished by the deep love, support, and refuge provided by your relationship so you can have way more energy to focus on things that matter to you.
ALL of this delivered in the proven best of both worlds Format: A hybrid of group and one to one coaching.
All the good stuff is just flowing between me and my man thanks to coaching with Hannah. It's such a lovely feeling to be empowered to be a love leader in your relationship. It feels right emotionally and spiritually.When we women step into this we have such successful relationships. Bc What we get in return is absolute devotion. What men really want is to love and adore us!
L.H., past Client
We're having more positive lighter interactions, more enjoyable conversation even laughter! I'm feeling down much less and we're having much less conflict.
In Past Client's Words:
I'm in the best days of my life thanks to coaching with Hannah.
M.G. Past Client
Since I started working with Hannah my relationship has become more solid than it has ever been. My partner wrote me the most loving card on Valentine's Day which was BIG for him! It never would have happened before doing this program. The great changes are showing in so many ways. Not just my relationship with my partner. In my health, in my relationship with my sister and my mom…
T, Past Client, FL, USA
I am now feeling so content within myself, so peaceful, so strong. For the first time I feel whole and that feeling has informed every area of my life. Everything I need is within and I feel safe and protected –by my own self. My partner and I are doing better than ever and I feel 100% confident in our relationship and that we can get through anything together. This coaching has truly helped me change my life– truly.
S.L., Past client
"I couldn't imagine this version of myself that I have grown into by working with Hannah. She has guided me to envision who I want to be, and how to return to this deeply safe, heart centered and wisely loving self when the normal winds of life and love blow me a little off-course. I am so grateful for her guidance."
Treasured is for you if you are a sensitive big-hearted woman who's ready to put an end to the old patterns and dynamics that aren’t working in your marriage, and to step into your power to make your marriage the true treasure you always dreamed a marriage could be..l
AND YOU WON'T BE ALONE IN DOING IT!
THROUGHOUT THIS PROCESS YOU’LL BE SUPPORTED BY HANNAH AND AN INTIMATE GROUP OF
THE MOST SENSITIVE BIG-HEARTED WOMEN AROUND. . .
. . . all wanting the same sorts of things, and struggling with the same sorts of things, and all doing the same work side by side towards the same goals. . .
No more feeling all alone or like something's wrong with you because of your sensitivity again. With us, you belong!
Together we will be stepping into love leadership, lifting each other up, revolutionizing our marriages, families, and world forever.
TOGETHER, BONE-DEEP TRANSFORMATION IS INEVITABLE.
Your 6 Months in Treasured Includes MORE than All The Support You Need To Make Your Marriage Loving And Connected Again:
Lifetime Access to The Treasured Learning Site, containing the 4 Pillars of an Amazing Marriage. Learn and embody what really leads to loving intimacy through deep teachings (broken down into easily digestible pieces), deep-dive teaching videos, booklets to help you master sensitive communication and self coaching, and exercises to support you in transforming your marriage from the inside out. All this so you can not only understand, but also get into your bones, what works for incredible love and connection. This Learning site is so thoroughly packed with essential support for you and your marriage, it's worth the cost of the program on its own.
22+ Group Coaching Video Calls With Hannah (virtual, so location is not an issue), where Hannah will coach you and others 1:1 to dissolve blocks, create healthy relational habits, peace-promoting perspectives, and engaged action so you can have the most fulfilling relationship imaginable. We will target and clear up the issues unique to you and your relationship, and learn from each other’s challenges and successes as well.
Recordings Of Our Sessions so you can listen to them again later for deeper insight and understanding for years to come. It's easy to forget insights you have had on our call, because we cover so much. This really helps spark your memory and anchor those insights in, for the best progress possible.
Your Set The Stage Kick-Start Module A whole module of videos, handouts, and exercises to get you prepared to make the very most of this program and set the stage for the most powerful shifts to happen. This way, you'll get super clear about what you are working towards and get fully committed to the incredible journey you are about to take, so you can be so successful in making the changes you want in your marriage.
The 8-Week Better Marriage Jumpstart, Early in our time together we will dive into applying, via a specially sequenced process, the most important things to do to start seeing positive change and more loving connection in your relationship right away. When you implement these, within 8 weeks you'll be in awe of how much better things feel.
A Foundations Of Wellbeing For Sensitives Module Start off with building the best foundation possible for a thriving marriage: by deeply supporting your sensitive finely tuned nervous system with the best practices for you to stay calm, grounded, nourished, and resourced. Everything good comes downstream from here for us HSPs.
Bonus Master Classes and/or Skills Labs on key topics
You will have the chance to join classes and skills labs on essential relationship and emotional skills (topics determined by needs of the group). Learn, practice, master-and enjoy the positive impact on your marriage and life.
A Treasure Trove Of Downloadable Guided Audios And Meditations that you can come back to over and over to create lasting transformation and powerful neural-re-programming in your mind and body, so you can be your best most loving and lovable self. This is where much of the deep healing and transformation happens. The audios are richly supportive and they fill out the package so that you are doing the work on all levels of your being, for the quickest and most thorough relationship transformation.
Private Facebook Community
A deeply supportive and celebratory community to share break-throughs, challenges, and get coaching from Hannah and the group.
Possible Surprise Bonuses , depending on what comes up in our time together (such as 1:1 Emotion Sessions), Hannah's GOT you!
Access to optional add-ons:
1:1 coaching and/or coaching for your partner after or during these 6 months.
And of course, you'll have Hannah's signature love-drenched, gentle-but-direct, believe-in-you-fiercely support all along the way to call you into the woman you want to be in a marriage you love being in!
and start revolutionizing your marriage now.
We begin in September, 2022 and meet weekly for 6 months.
Reserve your spot today:
To join, please set aside 10 minutes to fill out the mutual great fit form. Hannah will get back to you within 24 hours with next steps to enroll.
Not only will joining Treasured forever benefit your own marriage and life, but it will directly transform the world for the better...
Through Hannah's partnership with Trees for the Future, 100 trees will be planted in your honor. (Why trees?)
“Before coaching with Hannah I thought I was losing my whole life because my husband was telling me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was very afraid of the future.
As I dove into the program, Hannah helped me see my part in the bad relationship dynamics I had with my husband: my tendency to try and control him and his behavior, my reactivity with him, how I would complain if I did not like how things were. And that pushed him away over time.
In coaching with Hannah, I learned how to take responsibility for how I feel and how to work with my emotions so that I can handle and direct them all instead of trying to direct my husband!
I can now respond calmly instead of reacting and saying things that make things worse. And we actually come up with solutions together for problems that arise.
One day he kissed me for the first time in a year. . .and not just a little kiss – but with warm fiery sparks! I felt so good and hopeful. Then we began snuggling often, and really reviving our relationship on all levels.
Because I am now able to be more loving and compassionate, he is feeling more supported by me and is telling me he wants to make this work, and is showing it through his actions.
I now see a positive future together again! I would not have developed the relationship skills I now have without Hannah’s guidance. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for this program.”
Past Clients Stories
“Coaching with Hannah helped me find the love and acceptance I had been searching for my entire life. “
Past Client, USA
Things are going really well are my partner and I -- to the next level. We're under contract on a new home and we're talking about engagement rings!
Past Client, NH, USA
I used to always end up feeling unimportant to my husband. With Hannah’s help, I now share my feelings and communicate authentically in a loving way. I’m taking care of myself, asking for what I need, and it's inspired him to look at and take action on his own issues.
I'm now able to get across to him (in a very loving, kind way), what's important to me. AND he's surprised me with his responses that are open, humble and loving.
I now trust that he loves me, and know he wants to make it work. I’m very happy with my ‘new’ husband and love the man he is. We are laughing, loving and having FUN!!
This program is very powerful and extremely helpful to me personally and in my relationships. I highly recommend Hannah to anyone who wants to grow in LOVE."
Mara, NC, USA
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Before we started, I was struggling with feeling insecure and jealous in my relationship, and insecure in myself. I was worried that maybe we weren't meant to be together, that it would always be this way, that we'd never find a way out of struggling with conflict or deal with difficult conversations. I was feeling time pressure to make a "decision."
But after working with Hannah, I’m feeling really secure and confident, calm, steady, accepted, loving, warm-- a glowy gratitude. AND so much better about myself, In general. It's led to us reuniting in such a great way, feeling so connected and secure. And I’m not feeling needy or threatened and have less worry about the future. Things I would have gotten upset about I'm not anymore! It’s a completely different mindset!
Because of me doing this work, we're both more confident in ourselves and each other's ability to communicate honestly and openly. We've had so much growth and many important conversations lately, and we're feeling so grateful to have each other. He now asks me “How can I support you?”.
I feel so much love, support, and deep interest from him. I’ve always wanted to be able to say about a man “I feel like he’s my safe space! “ Now I can.
Lauren, Past client
Coaching with Hannah has made an enormous difference in my life. I feel so much love and I am so loved!
Past Client, USA
IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS, YOU CAN BE SAYING THE SAME THINGS!
To join, please set aside 10 minutes to fill out the Mutual Great Fit Form by clicking the join button above. Hannah will get back to you within 48 hours with the final steps to enroll.
To join, please set aside 10 minutes to fill out the Mutual Great Fit Form by clicking the join button above. Hannah will get back to you within 48 hours with the final steps to enroll.
"When we first started there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point. It just blows my mind it's so good!” ~Donna, Client
Still not sure if this is for you?
Treasured is NOT for you if you just want a magic wand to to change your husband. If you dont want to grow and trenasform by shifintg your relatinship with yoruself. IF youre more invested in trying ot change him than makign changes wehre you ACutlly have contirol: in yourself.
IT is for You if:
YOU KNWI T DEEP DONW: continuing to do what you’ve been doing for a while now is not going to give you the marriage you want. It's not going to bring you the loving sensitivity, connection and sense of supportive ally-ship with your significant other you know is possible in a marriage.
You’re ready to do something different, something that really works to make that happen, for yourself, and your loved ones.
you know your and emotonaly welbing and a loving realtinship are a key to your deep happingess and fulfilment in life, and you're ready to invest in that with your energy, time and money. Its for you if
THIS is what you will bring alive when you join