WANT MORE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? MORE CONNECTION, MORE FEELING LIKE A TEAM, MORE EASE AND LAUGHTER, MORE PASSION?
I see you, Highly Sensitive one.
WELCOME TO THE CHRYSALIS WHERE YOU'LL BRING ALL OF THAT TO LIFE.
SINCE YOU'RE HERE, MY HUNCH IS...
Something feels lacking in your marriage. . . you feel more dissatisfied than in love (or you just want to prevent that dissatisfaction from settling in).
Maybe you feel irritated, often disconnected, disappointed, prickly, even easily hurt, or less loved and valued than you want to.
Resentments crop up here and there, and communication between you and your spouse tends to lack ease and lightness-- or it sparks discord and distance.
You feel like the love between you is fading . . .(or you don't ever want to let that happen!)
Even though you want to feel the aliveness and love of the earlier days—but with even more security – right now you feel discouraged and like things between you may never change.
But, my friend:
THINGS CAN CHANGE.
Because, as as sensitive woman, you were born for having the best marriage possible.
"When I first started with Hannah there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point.
It just blows my mind it's so good!” ~Donna, Client
IT’S JUST THAT YOU’VE FALLEN INTO A PHASE
IN YOUR MARRIAGE (A VERY NORMAL ONE),
A PHASE I CALL DISENCHANTMENT.
And YOU’RE NOT ALONE.
Unfortunately so many couples get STUCK here–and end up miserable --or divorced.
It doesn't have to be that way for YOU.
I’ve helped hundreds of women move beyond this disheartening phase – and into a much more deeply alive and loving experience of their marriage.
IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE THROUGH AND OUT OF DISENCHANTMENT, TOO––AND INTO A DEEP AND VIBRANT LOVE THAT LASTS FOR THE LONG-HAUL.
"I laugh all the time these days with my partner. I couldn't have imagined it before, but now
every day is
"I'm feeling so good in my relationship, words cannot describe! I'm just filled with so much gratitude and love. I cannot thank Hannah enough for the profound impact her coaching has had on my life."
(Want to learn more about the 3 Phases to Lasting Love? Check out this podcast episode. )
You CAN feel RE-enchanted with your partner–and he with you.
You can get out of this hard time you’re in and FEEL your significant other loving you more deeply and genuinely than ever— like you are a true treasure to them–with all your sensitive humanness . . .
You can feel like your partner’s a treasure, too, and that you are in love with him again!
You can have that lasting, deep, alive love that encompasses ALL of who each of you are. . .
. . .even IF you're discouraged right now. . .because you've probably already tried some things to improve your relationship:
maybe even been in therapy
or couples counseling
or done some trauma healing
tried communicating better
read relationship books
been listening to podcasts
Let' give you some real credit!! This has all been useful--even if only to get you ready to make the change once and for all, (which is such a wonderful place to be, and I hope you’re proud of coming this far!) But . . . all that work hasn’t made your relationship what you dream one could be.
You're STILL not so happy.
You may think the reason is:
YOU. . .you're just so sensitive . You've been told you're “too sensitive” time and again –and so you think that may be causing issues in your marriage. . .
...OR maybe it feels like YOUR SPOUSE's fault: you notice lots of little things he’s doing wrong or not well enough: He doesn’t talk to the kids in the kind way you do, he’s aloof or grumpy with you when he’s stressed, he doesn’t do enough to make you feel precious to him, he’s too "insensitive" (my clients and I joke about this all the time–but it often feels true !) . . .
Truth is, neither you or your partner is the problem.
The reason you've gotten stuck in this disenchanment phase is, simply by living in our culture, all of us have inherited so many messages and approaches to intimate relationships that make it harder to have a truly lasting love in our marriages. Messages that are PLAIN WRONG.
And it's costing us our marriages.
The truth is, you just haven't BEEN TAUGHT what it takes to keep love vibrant and make the quality of connection get better by the day. YET.
to access the huge power of influence you have, as a highly sensitive woman, to stay ENCHANTED and in love with the very REAL human your partner turned out to be. . .and to feel truly treasured by your partner.
The good news it’s not COMPLICATED to do.
There are only 3 THINGS you need to be able to get good at to make your marriage come back alive
with deeper love than ever - and stay that way:
1. Love and believe in the being you are (sensitivity and all)
2. Know how to move through and out of negative emotions (that hurt love if stuck in them)
3. Know how to move into emotions that foster love and connection that keeps increasing
SO NOW IT'S TIME TO LEARN HOW
It’s that SIMPLE...
Everything good flows from here: the actions you need to take to be well in yourself and to connect with your partner effectively and deeply, the communication that works to build sustained and deepening loving intimacy, the ability to problem solve and grow your love even more over time — ALL come from developing your capacity to do these 3 things!
These things are simple…But not necessarily easy.
It takes developing EMOTIONAL AGENCY to do these 3 things! Which means. . .
Learning and developing this emotional agency leads to you creating the conditions for your partner to treat you in the best, most loving ways possible, so your relationship can really shift into a culture of safety, love, and joyful intimacy.
Enlivening Your Marriage and Deepening Your Love
A 6 month intimate group program for highly sensitive women
AND YOU ARE IN THE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT PLACE TO LEARN ALL OF THAT, MY FRIEND!
INTRODUCING. . .
When you participate in this proven process, we take it step-by-basic step, building these essential emotional and relationship skills one simple shift at a time.
Until you look up and realize you feel better than ever in your marriage-and in yourSELF.
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING:
"I can't get over how beautiful our relationship is now after these months with Hannah. It's almost surreal. It's almost like we are totally different people now. Neither of us imagined we'd ever be in this place. Our relationship is so strong and so deep now. We've come to a place where we truly GET each other. We even lovingly deal with conflict. It’s incredible.
Sam, Past Client, Canada
I’ve created new levels of intimacy with my husband that we have never experienced before. I feel stronger in my abilities to not only communicate and interact with him but also to support myself. Both the financial and time investments are well worth it, and if I had to go back in time, I would definitely make the same choice and do Treasured again!
~G. Past Client
We’ve been through many years and forms of marriage counseling that all seemed to leave us frustrated and unimproved. Finally, a program that gets to the core of our relationship problems
(which of course are the issues we both bring to the relationship). Initially it’s working on your own self that WILL gently and lovingly lead your partner to see the changing relationship dynamics. Amazingly they’re WILLING to make the necessary changes in themselves. This program has not only helped us get our loving relationship back but it has helped us both recognize and resolve some individual problems we each brought to the marriage. I can’t say enough about the unique approach to relationships that Hannah takes in the Treasured program. It works!!!! “
I got so much more out of working with you for months than I did out of years of therapy! Things now are really, really good with my partner, better than ever. We have been showing each other so much love and tenderness, and things just feel so much easier and lighter.
I’m not as likely to get in a funky mood as before because I tend to my emotions better as they arise...I’m much more confident in myself, less prone to jealousy and have more self-love, a lot less self-judgement. I’m not as anxious about things overall.
All this and more translates to my relationship! He says the sweetest things about being so grateful to be with me and how we can even turn a bad moment around.
Lauren, Past Client
"When we first started there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point. It just blows my mind it's so good!”
Donna, Past Client, AU
Enlivening Your Marriage and Deepening Your Love
A 6 month intimate group program for highly sensitive women
WHEN YOU COMMIT TO SHOWING UP AND DOING THE WORK, BY THE TIME WE WRAP UP 6 MONTHS FROM NOW YOU WILL FEEL SUCH JOY AND PRIDE THAT YOU WERE ABLE TO TURN THIS MARRIAGE AROUND AND ABOUT HOW YOU NOW:
. . .Wake up and realize one morning that you haven’t had a divisive argument or had your feelings hurt in months–and instead that you feel lightheartedness with each other, frequent smiles and laughter and easy connection as the norm.
. . . Look at him across the dinner table while he’s blabbing on about this or that and being struck by the sweetest heart swelling feeling of just loving this guy and being lucky to have him.
. . . Feel attraction, connection, and sexiness again so you can make love with a sense of genuine connection and true pleasure like you haven’t felt in years.
. . ,Communicate 90% more effectively so you can get to understandings, resolve long-standing issues, and come out the other side feeling close and excited for your future together!
. . .Hear your husband tell you you’re the best thing that ever happened to him and that you keep teaching him in the most important ways (or just know it in your bones that he knows this).
. . .Feel like you are SUMPTUOUS TREASURE TO YOUR PARTNER --AS HE IS TO YOU . . .like YOUR MARRIAGE IS A TRUE GEM.
. . Always know how to feel unshakable security, ease, connection, and love in your marriage–even if your hubby is in busy-mode for a few weeks, gets grumpy, or you have a conflict.
. . . Feel the daily challenges of living are faced supportively together, and the daily to dos get done with ease and collaboration.
Treasured isn't more of what you've already tried.
And that's why it will change everything.
Unlike some programs that focus only on strategies (which will only get you so far), in The 4 Pillars of the Treasured process
we focus on BOTH:
The most essential down-to-earth strategies that are proven to revitalize and maintain lasting love.
AND the deeper foundational internal emotional work that makes it easy and natural to know just what to do and say to deepen the loving connection you want with your partner.
The best part? You'll do all of this without becoming "less" sensitive, being more stoic, being a “better” person, or trying to get your husband to change (isn't that exhausting!?)!
Instead you will learn how to harness the power of your SENSITIVITY to re-enchant your marriage with love. Because that's an innate gift of an highly sensitive woman. You just need to learn to use it.
MY OWN JOURNEY TO MAKING
MY MARRIAGE AMAZING:
All the good stuff is just flowing between me and my man thanks to coaching with Hannah. It's such a lovely feeling to be empowered to be a love leader in your relationship. It feels right emotionally and spiritually.When we women step into this we have such successful relationships. Because what we get in return is absolute devotion. What men really want is to love and adore us!
L.H., past Client
We're having more positive lighter interactions, more enjoyable conversation even laughter! I'm feeling down much less and we're having much less conflict.
In Past Client's Words:
I'm in the best days of my life thanks to coaching with Hannah.
M.G. Past Client
Since I started working with Hannah my relationship has become more solid than it has ever been. My partner wrote me the most loving card on Valentine's Day which was BIG for him! It never would have happened before doing this program. The great changes are showing in so many ways. Not just my relationship with my partner. In my health, in my relationship with my sister and my mom…
T, Past Client, FL, USA
I am now feeling so content within myself, so peaceful, so strong. For the first time I feel whole and that feeling has informed every area of my life. Everything I need is within and I feel safe and protected –by my own self. My partner and I are doing better than ever and I feel 100% confident in our relationship and that we can get through anything together. This coaching has truly helped me change my life– truly.
S.L., Past client
"I couldn't imagine this version of myself that I have grown into by working with Hannah. She has guided me to envision who I want to be, and how to return to this deeply safe, heart centered and wisely loving self when the normal winds of life and love blow me a little off-course. I am so grateful for her guidance."
Treasured is for you if you are a sensitive big-hearted woman who's ready to put an end to the old patterns and dynamics that aren’t working in your marriage, and to step into your power to make your marriage the true treasure you always dreamed a marriage could be..l
AND YOU WON'T BE ALONE IN DOING IT!
YOU’LL BE DEEPLY SUPPORTED BY HANNAH AND AN INTIMATE GROUP OF
THE MOST SENSITIVE BIG-HEARTED WOMEN AROUND. . .
. . . all wanting and struggling with the same sorts of things, and all doing the same work side by side towards the same goals. . .
No more feeling all alone or like something's wrong with you because of your sensitivity again. With us, you belong!
Together we will be stepping into love leadership, lifting each other up, keeping each other accountable and motivated, and revolutionizing our marriages forever.
Because this is a hybrid program, you also have the option to get deep targeted support by adding private 1:1 coaching sessions with Hannah. See more info below.
TOGETHER, BONE-DEEP TRANSFORMATION IS INEVITABLE.
Your 6 Months in Treasured Includes MORE than All The Support You Need To Make Your Marriage Loving And Connected Again...
Lifetime Access to The Treasured Learning Site, containing the 4 Pillars of an Amazing Marriage. Learn and embody what really leads to loving intimacy through deep teachings (broken down into easily digestible pieces), deep-dive teaching videos, booklets to help you master sensitive communication and self coaching, and exercises to support you in transforming your marriage from the inside out. All this so you can not only understand, but also get into your bones, what works for incredible love and connection. This Learning site is so thoroughly packed with essential support for you and your marriage, it's worth the cost of the program on its own.
20 Group Coaching Video Calls With Hannah (virtual, so location is not an issue), where Hannah will coach you and others 1:1 to dissolve blocks, create healthy relational habits, peace-promoting perspectives, and engaged action so you can have the most fulfilling relationship imaginable. We will target and clear up the issues unique to you and your relationship, and learn from each other’s challenges and successes as well.
Recordings Of Our Sessions so you can listen to them again later for deeper insight and understanding for years to come. It's easy to forget insights you have had on our call, because we cover so much. This really helps spark your memory and anchor those insights in, for the best progress possible.
A Welcome and Mission Alignment Group Call
So we can set on the best foot possible, get to know each other, and start feeling comfortable together!
Your Set The Stage Kick-Start Module A whole module of videos, handouts, and exercises to get you prepared to make the very most of this program and set the stage for the most powerful shifts to happen. This way, you'll get super clear about what you are working towards and get fully committed to the incredible journey you are about to take, so you can be so successful in making the changes you want in your marriage.
The 8-Week Better Marriage Jumpstart, Early in our time together we will dive into applying, via a specially sequenced process, the most important things to do to start seeing positive change and more loving connection in your relationship right away. When you implement these, within 8 weeks you'll be in awe of how much better things feel.
Bonus Master Classes and/or Skills Labs on key topics
You will have the chance to join classes and skills labs on essential relationship and emotional skills (topics determined by needs of the group). Learn, practice, master-and enjoy the positive impact on your marriage and life.
Private Virtual Community Space
A deeply supportive and celebratory community to share break-throughs, challenges, and get coaching from Hannah and the group.
Foundations Of Emotional Wellbeing For HSPs As soon as you join, you will get instant access to this essential course that will start you off on building the best foundation possible for a thriving marriage: by deeply supporting your sensitive finely tuned nervous system with the best practices for you to stay calm, grounded, nourished, and resourced. Everything good comes downstream from here for us HSPs.
A Treasure Trove Of Downloadable Guided Audios And Meditations that you can come back to over and over to create lasting transformation and powerful neural-re-programming in your mind and body, so you can be your best most loving and lovable self. This is where much of the deep healing and transformation happens. The audios are richly supportive and they fill out the package so that you are doing the work on all levels of your being, for the quickest and most thorough relationship transformation.
Surprise Bonuses, depending on what comes up in our time together (such as 1:1 Emotion Sessions), Hannah's GOT you!
Hybrid of group AND 1:1 Private coaching options!
You can add 1:1 coaching wth Hannah during these 6 months for the deepest most targeted support and transformation. See details and options below.
And of course, you'll have Hannah's signature love-drenched, gentle-but-direct, believe-in-you-fiercely support all along the way to call you into the woman you want to be in a marriage you love being in!
Here are your 2 TREASURED package options:
ENROLLMENT IS ROLLING.
Join to get started right away. First coaching call dates TBD soon.
To join, please set aside 10 minutes to fill out the mutual great fit form. Hannah will get back to you within 48 hours with next steps to enroll, including confirming your choice of packages.
ALL OF THIS WILL BE DELIVERED IN THE PROVEN BEST-OF-BOTH-WORLDS FORMAT:
A HYBRID OF GROUP AND 1:1 COACHING.
In my years of coaching both 1:1 and groups, I've learned that BOTH have big , but different, advantages. Group teaches you what you'd never learn on your own and inspires, motivates, and supports you in ways you'd never experience on your own. And private 1:1 coaching allows a depth of focus on you and the time to dive very thoroughly into you and the specifics of your situation, for the deepest change possible.
In Treasured you get to choose how deep and quickly you want to go and the format that's best for you.
Curious about (or intimidated by) the group experience? Wonder about doing just group versus adding 1:1? Get answers RIGHT from 3 past Treasured participants! Listen in below to hear them share what the group experience was like for them and the difference between group and 1:1 sessions
“Before coaching with Hannah I thought I was losing my whole life because my husband was telling me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was very afraid of the future.
As I dove into the program, Hannah helped me see my part in the bad relationship dynamics I had with my husband: my tendency to try and control him and his behavior, my reactivity with him, how I would complain if I did not like how things were. And that pushed him away over time.
In coaching with Hannah, I learned how to take responsibility for how I feel and how to work with my emotions so that I can handle and direct them all instead of trying to direct my husband!
I can now respond calmly instead of reacting and saying things that make things worse. And we actually come up with solutions together for problems that arise.
One day he kissed me for the first time in a year. . .and not just a little kiss – but with warm fiery sparks! I felt so good and hopeful. Then we began snuggling often, and really reviving our relationship on all levels.
Because I am now able to be more loving and compassionate, he is feeling more supported by me and is telling me he wants to make this work, and is showing it through his actions.
I now see a positive future together again! I would not have developed the relationship skills I now have without Hannah’s guidance. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for this program.”
Past Clients Stories
“Coaching with Hannah helped me find the love and acceptance I had been searching for my entire life. “
Past Client, USA
Things are going really well are my partner and I -- to the next level. We're under contract on a new home and we're talking about engagement rings!
Past Client, NH, USA
I used to always end up feeling unimportant to my husband. With Hannah’s help, I now share my feelings and communicate authentically in a loving way. I’m taking care of myself, asking for what I need, and it's inspired him to look at and take action on his own issues.
I'm now able to get across to him (in a very loving, kind way), what's important to me. AND he's surprised me with his responses that are open, humble and loving.
I now trust that he loves me, and know he wants to make it work. I’m very happy with my ‘new’ husband and love the man he is. We are laughing, loving and having FUN!!
This program is very powerful and extremely helpful to me personally and in my relationships. I highly recommend Hannah to anyone who wants to grow in LOVE."
Mara, NC, USA
For More Client Stories,
Before we started, I was struggling with feeling insecure and jealous in my relationship, and insecure in myself. I was worried that maybe we weren't meant to be together, that it would always be this way, that we'd never find a way out of struggling with conflict or deal with difficult conversations. I was feeling time pressure to make a "decision."
But after working with Hannah, I’m feeling really secure and confident, calm, steady, accepted, loving, warm-- a glowy gratitude. AND so much better about myself, In general. It's led to us reuniting in such a great way, feeling so connected and secure. And I’m not feeling needy or threatened and have less worry about the future. Things I would have gotten upset about I'm not anymore! It’s a completely different mindset!
Because of me doing this work, we're both more confident in ourselves and each other's ability to communicate honestly and openly. We've had so much growth and many important conversations lately, and we're feeling so grateful to have each other. He now asks me “How can I support you?”.
I feel so much love, support, and deep interest from him. I’ve always wanted to be able to say about a man “I feel like he’s my safe space! “ Now I can.
Lauren, Past client
Coaching with Hannah has made an enormous difference in my life. I feel so much love and I am so loved!
Past Client, USA
IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS, YOU CAN BE SAYING THE SAME THINGS!
Join TREASURED and start revolutionizing your marriage now.
And if you feel hopeful, but still unsure, I have a message for you:
To join, please set aside 10 minutes to fill out the Mutual Great Fit Form by clicking the join button above. Hannah will get back to you within 48 hours with the final steps to enroll.
Curious to learn more about
the 4 Step Process of Treasured?
Click to see a brief overview of the 4 steps we go through, which include all the down-to-earth strategies you need to know exactly what to do today and beyond to make your marriage light, connected and alive with real lasting love.
IF YOU STILL HAVE QUESTIONS, CHECK OUT THE FAQ PAGE HERE!
Still not sure if this is for you?
Treasured is NOT for you if:
you are more invested in venting or wishing you could wave a magic wand to change your husband than making changes where you ACTUALLY have control: In yourself.
you don't want to honer and work with your sensitive system to make everything in your life better..
Your significant other is physically abusive, deeply invested in substance abuse, or a serial cheater. (Please find support with a therapist).
You are unable to carve out a couple of hours a week to do the work it takes to create an intimate loving relationship
You hope that reading and listening and learning things passively will be enough to change your relationship dynamics. (You will need to be actively engaged and apply your learnings in real life)
It IS for you if:
you know your emotional wellbeing and a loving relationship are key to your deep happiness and fulfillment in life, and you're ready to invest in that with your energy, time and money.
You are willing to carve out a couple hours a week to spend on this work outside of our calls together (the more the better)
you're willing to take a deep look at how you can shift and and harness your own power to create a whole new beautiful dynamic between you and your partner .
you are willing to temporarily step a bit out of your comfort zone and get a little vulnerable with other HSP's in the group--and in return reap the incredible lasting reward of feeling so supported and understood-- and of deep connected loving in your marriage.
You're committed to creating the changes to make your long-held dream of a deeply loving relationship a reality