Unleash Your Love

  Create The Connection You Really Want With Your Partner

You crave more in your relationship. More feeling close, more ease and laughter, more connection.

But right now that connection feels out of reach . . .

~You are drained by the conflict and struggle in your relationship, and feel lonely even when your significant other's in the same room.

 

~You're tired of feeling upset (for hours, or even days) after your partner makes a comment in a tense or critical tone of voice.

~You don't feel valued or seen for who you really are.

~Your relationship feels like a stressful business partnership: practical, routine, draining, rather than a place you can turn to for support and care.

 

~You swing between worrying that it’s your fault things are challenging (you’re irritable or withdrawn) and resenting your partner for not showing up how you want them to.   

You're ready to feel genuine love between you.

~You want to feel close to and at ease with your partner, no matter what mood he might be in, 

~You want to feel cherished for who you are, imperfections and all.

 

~You'd like to smile when you think of  your partner (instead of frowning like you often do now).

~You want to respond calmly instead of reacting and making things worse.

~You wish it were easy to celebrate each other's successcome up with solutions to challenges together, and that the tasks of daily living were better, even fun, because you feel on each other's team.

YOU CAN HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU REALLY WANT AND MORE

If you are ready to feel truly good about your

interactions with your partner,  put an end to

all the tension and conflict and feel the return

of sweetness, fun, and intimacy in your relationship,  

please know that it is absolutely realistic to do just that.

 

 

 

I'd like to introduce you to . . .

   

UNLEASH YOUR LOVE

An individualized 1:1 coaching package for women (and, optionally, their partner).

So you can have the healthy, connected, fulfilling relationship you really want.

    

That’s where I come in. . . I'm Hannah Brooks, Connected Relationship Coach

I help smart, caring, deep-feeling women make their relationships much more fulfilling, intimate, and peaceful  (even if they have been tense and frustrating for a long time). 

 

I've been obsessed with having great relationships all my life. I'm also a truly  sensitive gal and I’ve been where you are now. I know how frustrating, sad, and lonely it can be.

 

But now I have an incredibly fun, connected, loving relationship with a man who completely supports and adores me (and vice versa).  I can help you have that, too.

 

    

 "When we first started there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point. It just blows my mind it's so good!” ~Donna, Client

In the 7 steps of UNLEASH YOUR LOVE you will:
1) BUILD PEACE FROM THE GROUND UP
(So You Can Be Calm, At Ease, and Rarely Reactive)
2) ACCEPT, ACCOUNT FOR, AND APPRECIATE YOURSELF
(And Feel How Much Power You Have To Make Your Relationship More Loving And Supportive)
3) CALM LOVE'S NUMBER ONE ENEMY
(To Create The Conditions For Love To Thrive)
4) HANDLE YOUR EMOTIONS MASTERFULLY
(So They Don't Rule Your Relationship)
5) RESTORE THE SACREDNESS OF YOUR LOVE
(And Feel More Love And Affection)

6) MAXIMIZE YOUR GIFT OF CONNECTION

(So Your Relationship Feels Safer and Sweeter Than Ever)

7) CREATE A LIFE YOU LOVE NO MATTER WHAT

(So You Can Feel Good, No Matter What)

When we are in a committed relationship in which we feel connected, calm, secure, and valued, our emotional, physical, and financial well-being also thrives. A healthy relationship 

makes your whole life better.

 UNLEASH YOUR LOVE

Includes All The Support You Need To Make Your Relationship Loving And Connected Again:

~7 Transformative Steps (all tailored to address your unique challenges) to create the connection, love, and supportive healthy intimacy in your relationship that you crave (and deserve). See more details about the 7 steps above.

                                                                 

~ Powerful 1:1 Individualized Coaching, so we can target and clear up the issues unique to you, as no one has the exact same challenges (location is  not an issue as we use the phone and other technology). The power of this program is how individualized it is. One size does not fit all. This includes:

 

 ~ One-On-One Coaching Calls With Hannah to dissolve blocks, create healthy relational habits, peace-promoting perspectives, and engaged action so you can have the most fulfilling relationship imaginable.

 

~ Email Support in the weeks between sessions, so if you have a burning question or a sudden large challenge, you can reach out to me and I can help you to take the next step to get back on track .

 

~ Recordings Of Our Sessions so you can listen to them again later for deeper insight and understanding for years to come. It's easy to forget insights you have had on our call, because we cover so much. This really helps spark your memory and anchor those insights in, for the best progress possible.

 

~The 7 Relationship Skills To Master to have that connected relationship you crave. Learn what really leads to loving intimacy.  Broken down into easily digestible pieces, so you can not only understand, but also get into your bones, what works for incredible love and connection,  you'll be able to start applying the skills to your relationship right away.

 

~A Wealth Of Exploration Assignments,  Exercises, Handouts, And Teaching Videos for in between sessions to deepen and catalyze your process, expand your understanding of how to overcome blocks and strategize the best way forward. The 7 Modules that compose the 7 steps are thoroughly packed with so much juicy, relevant and essential support for you. 

 

~Individually Tailored Homework Assignments for in between sessions customized to your unique challenges to keep you on track with your personal and relationship goals. This helps with momentum and integration. The more you put into it, the more you transform your love life into the supportive, loving experience you long for.

 

~A Treasure Trove Of Downloadable Guided Audios And Meditations that you can come back to over and over to create lasting transformation and powerful neural-re-programming in your mind and body, so you can be your best most loving and lovable self. This is where much of the deep healing and transformation happens. The audios are richly supportive and they fill out the package so that you are doing the work on all levels of your being, for the quickest and most thorough relationship transformation.   

 

 

~Access To Optional Supplemental Relationship Coaching Package Unleash Your Love: Together--just for your partner.  Exclusively available to your significant other when your enroll in Unleash Your Love,  Unleash Your Love: Together is an effective way to include their active participation in doing the work it takes to have a loving, mutually supportive, deeply intimate relationship you both want. Find out more here.

"It's amazing!...We are laughing a lot and having more fun and connection than ever. I feel so much more of a sense of synchrony , a sense that we are on each other’s side."

-Unleash Your Love Participant

FOR EXTRA MOMENTUM YOU'LL ALSO GET:

~ A Set The Stage Kick-Start Module Right away you'll get access to a whole module of videos, handouts, and exercises to get you prepared to make the very most of this program and set the stage for the most powerful shifts to happen. This way, you'll get super clear about what you are working towards and get fully committed to the incredible journey you are about to take, so you can finally have the loving supportive relationship that you've always wanted. 

~ One 45 minute 1:1 Tension-Buster Session to discover your personal shortcut to a better relationship...your best way of incorporating the most effective body-based, peace-enhancing, vitality boosting practices into daily life and what to do when blocks arise...because, when you've got this down as an integral part of your daily life, your relationship will naturally be so much easier and sweeter. But many people neglect this essential step and therefore struggle with everything, like I did for years in my first marriage! Let's not let that be you.

HOW IS THIS PROGRAM IS DIFFERENT AND SPECIAL?

1. Unleash Your Love is especially designed for women who feel things deeply and are sensitive to feeling overstimulated and easily stressed. You may get easily irritated, easily hurt, or quickly reactive (or you shut down and withdraw).…We'll establish the foundation to interact peacefully with your partner right away . . . so that up-leveling the rest of the relationship flows naturally.

2. We'll look at and address your relationship challenges from a whole person perspective.  Love isn't just an idea---it's an experience—one that includes our bodies, minds, hearts, emotions and spirits. We'll address all these levels so you'll achieve the biggest and most permanent changes. That 's the fastest way to having the truly supportive, intimate, lasting relationship you want.

3. You will have exclusive access to the optional coaching package for your partner: Unleash Your Love: Together. On your own, you have so much influence over the health of your relationship, but it helps to have active participation from your significant other in creating the mutually supportive, loving relationship you both want. Unleash Your Love: Together will help both of you get on the same page so you feel as if you are fully in this  together.

 I now have what I always dreamed of: the most loving and supportive relationship I could have imagined. My man's eyes totally light up when he sees me. And I actually get that fluttery excited feeling when he walks in the door. My clients say the same things about their relationships now, as well.

You can have the relationship you've always wanted, too...

You can feel cherished for who you are, imperfections and all (like getting irritated at small things, or taking his joking comments too personally).

 

You can feel deep down good about yourself and proud of your interactions with your partner.

 

You can feel delighted and supported by your relationship and close to your partner (even though he's got some annoying habits and is far from perfect!)

You can discover that there’s enough magic and love between you to override the hard moments (and even laugh at them together).

We don't get here by being lucky. It's about getting clear on the skills and

doing the meaningful work on yourself that it takes to achieve that dream. 

IN UNLEASH YOUR LOVE YOU WILL LEARN EXACTLY HOW TO CREATE THE LOVING, CLOSE, FULFILLING RELATIONSHIP YOU CRAVE.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT UNLEASH YOUR LOVE:

I've never had so much growth in my self-awareness as when working with Hannah. Coaching worked better for me as it is direct, fast and effective compared to traditional therapy. I used to stuff my feelings, hide them to get by (or even run off and hide when they came up) and I'd always end up feeling unimportant to my husband. With Hannah’s help, I now share my feelings and communicate authentically in a loving way. I’m taking care of myself, asking for what I need, and it's inspired him to look at and take action on his own issues. I'm now able to get across to him (in a very loving, kind way), what's important to me. AND he has surprised me with his responses that are open, humble and loving. I now trust that he loves me, and know he wants to make it work. I’m very happy with my ‘new’ husband and love the man he is. We are laughing, loving and having FUN!! This program is very powerful and extremely helpful to me personally and in my relationships. I highly recommend Hannah to anyone who wants to grow in LOVE."   ~ Mara, North Carolina

Things are so much better between us! It’s amazing. We’ve had some big breakthroughs and things are feeling so sweet. I keep peeling back these critical judgements I used to have of him and I feel so much more lightness and acceptance in their place. Because of that shift in me, he feels safer and relaxed in my presence and is trusting me enough to open up and share things with me he wouldn’t have before. We are laughing a lot and having more fun and connection than ever. I feel so much more of a sense of synchrony , a sense that we are on each other’s side. I keep asking myself, ‘Is this for real?’!”~Unleash Your Love Participant, VT

 

“Before starting Unleash Your love I thought I was losing my whole life because my husband was telling me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was very afraid of the future. As I dove into the program, Hannah helped me see my part in the bad relationship dynamics I had with my husband: my tendency to try and control him and his behavior, my reactivity with him, how I would complain if I did not like how things were. And that pushed him away over time. In UYL I learned how to take responsibility for how I feel and how to work with my emotions so that I can handle and direct them all instead of trying to direct my husband! I can now respond calmly instead of reacting and saying things that make things worse. And we actually come up with solutions together for problems that arise. One day he kissed me for the first time in a year. . .and not just a little kiss – but with warm fiery sparks! I felt so good and hopeful. Then we began snuggling often, and really reviving our relationship on all levels. Because I am now able to be more loving and compassionate, he is feeling more supported by me and is telling me he wants to make this work, and is showing it through his actions. I now see a positive future together again! I would not have developed the relationship skills I now have without Hannah’s guidance. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for this program.” ~K.B, Germany

 "After 4 years of being married, I felt unfulfilled, uninspired and overall dull in my relationship with my husband. The spark between us was gone.  Having Hannah’s support, gentle guidance and her completely nonjudgmental approach and openness created a possibility for me to let go of that which was keeping me small, restricted and unfulfilled in myself and in my relationship with my husband. As a result, my relationship with my husband is magical and deep again. I feel incredibly inspired about our future and the possibilities that lie ahead. I feel deeply connected to myself and to my husband. " - Yulia Azriel, IL

 “Hannah is wonderful, so warm, welcoming, loving and easy to talk to. She is very in tune with me, so I feel completely heard, understood and supported. I’ve been able to say things to her that I couldn’t even admit to myself....I would definitely recommend Hannah, whether in a relationship or not, as you will benefit from her wisdom and sincerity. I was so unsure of myself and was in robot-like-living (and relating) mode before starting Unleash Your Love. Working with her opened the door to a more forgiving way of looking at things in my challenging relationship. I’ve begun the process of really finding out who I am and actually beginning to value myself as I haven’t before. I’ve begun discovering what I need from, and what I can authentically give to my relationship, the best way to handle myself emotionally in different situations, and how to deal with past issues and move forward from them more positively. Hannah’s coaching is different than any kind of therapy I’ve tried and it’s actually making a difference. I now have some great tools and more emotional intelligence than ever before as I move forward in life and love.” ~ Amanda, Toronto, Canada

Step 2. At the scheduled time of your call, we'll talk! You'll share with me more about your relationship, including what's hard and what you want more of. You'll have time to ask any questions you may have. We'll use the opportunity to make sure we are a good fit before we commit to working together. 

 

 

 

Step 3.Then we'll get started! If you decide to work with me, I'll tell you the exact steps for getting started. If you decide not to work with me or if we aren't a perfect fit, I'm happy to share other resources to help you get what you need.

READY TO GET STARTED? HERE IS HOW:

Step 1. Schedule a complimentary, no-obligation, half hour Love No Matter What Consult Call. You'll fill out a form and pick your time slot (before we hop on the phone, I'd like to know a bit about you and what you'd like to get out of working with me). 

 
THE COST OF PASSING SUPPORT BY:
Change nothing, nothing changes.
 
You know that saying, "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."?
In my first marriage, I did that for years. Same old song and dance to try to get us to be happier. I learned the hard way that if you just keep doing what you've been doing in your relationship (like hiding from the problems, trying to get him to change, trying to fix it with no support, just reading relationship books, or seeing the same couples counselor) things won't improve. Things may even get worse, as they do when relationships start to lose their sturdy loving foundation.
Over time you or your partner might give up entirely.
 
Then you either live in a loveless relationship or you split up, with all the pain and financial, emotional, and health costs that entails. Did you know that the average cost of a divorce in the USA is $20,000, not including any asset losses or any of the living costs after, like having two separate households? 
 
If you don't change your dance, your partner won't either. You will keep dancing the same frustrating, lonely dance,  and no one will be happy. 
You may not feel like it right now, but you will see it quickly when you start making positive changes by learning a new dance. All it takes is one person to change the dance, and the other will have to adjust and shift. 
 
 
 
NOT SURE HOW THIS COULD HELP?
Book your free consult and find out
 
 
 

IF YOU'RE READY TO ENJOY ALL THAT DEEP MEANINGFUL INTIMACY HAS TO OFFER,
THIS PROGRAM MAY BE PERFECT FOR YOU. BUT IT ISN'T FOR JUST ANYONE. . .

"I've never had so much growth in my self-awareness as when working with Hannah. Coaching worked better for me as it is direct, fast and effective compared to traditional therapy. I used to stuff my feelings, hide them to get by (or even run off and hide when they came up) and I'd always end up feeling unimportant to my husband. With Hannah’s help, I now share my feelings and communicate authentically in a loving way. I’m taking care of myself, asking for what I need, and it's inspired him to look at and take action on his own issues. I'm now able to get across to him (in a very loving, kind way), what's important to me. AND he has surprised me with his responses that are open, humble and loving. I now trust that he loves me, and know he wants to make it work. I’m very happy with my ‘new’ husband and love the man he is. We are laughing, loving and having FUN!! This program is very powerful and extremely helpful to me personally and in my relationships. I highly recommend Hannah to anyone who wants to grow in LOVE."   ~ Mara, North Carolina

Things are so much better between us! It’s amazing. We’ve had some big breakthroughs and things are feeling so sweet. I keep peeling back these critical judgements I used to have of him and I feel so much more lightness and acceptance in their place. Because of that shift in me, he feels safer and relaxed in my presence and is trusting me enough to open up and share things with me he wouldn’t have before. We are laughing a lot and having more fun and connection than ever. I feel so much more of a sense of synchrony , a sense that we are on each other’s side. I keep asking myself, ‘Is this for real?’!”~Unleash Your Love Participant, VT

 

“Before starting Unleash Your love I thought I was losing my whole life because my husband was telling me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was very afraid of the future. As I dove into the program, Hannah helped me see my part in the bad relationship dynamics I had with my husband: my tendency to try and control him and his behavior, my reactivity with him, how I would complain if I did not like how things were. And that pushed him away over time. In UYL I learned how to take responsibility for how I feel and how to work with my emotions so that I can handle and direct them all instead of trying to direct my husband! I can now respond calmly instead of reacting and saying things that make things worse. And we actually come up with solutions together for problems that arise. One day he kissed me for the first time in a year. . .and not just a little kiss – but with warm fiery sparks! I felt so good and hopeful. Then we began snuggling often, and really reviving our relationship on all levels. Because I am now able to be more loving and compassionate, he is feeling more supported by me and is telling me he wants to make this work, and is showing it through his actions. I now see a positive future together again! I would not have developed the relationship skills I now have without Hannah’s guidance. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for this program.” ~K.B, Germany

 "After 4 years of being married, I felt unfulfilled, uninspired and overall dull in my relationship with my husband. The spark between us was gone.  Having Hannah’s support, gentle guidance and her completely nonjudgmental approach and openness created a possibility for me to let go of that which was keeping me small, restricted and unfulfilled in myself and in my relationship with my husband. As a result, my relationship with my husband is magical and deep again. I feel incredibly inspired about our future and the possibilities that lie ahead. I feel deeply connected to myself and to my husband. " - Yulia Azriel, IL

 “Hannah is wonderful, so warm, welcoming, loving and easy to talk to. She is very in tune with me, so I feel completely heard, understood and supported. I’ve been able to say things to her that I couldn’t even admit to myself....I would definitely recommend Hannah, whether in a relationship or not, as you will benefit from her wisdom and sincerity. I was so unsure of myself and was in robot-like-living (and relating) mode before starting Unleash Your Love. Working with her opened the door to a more forgiving way of looking at things in my challenging relationship. I’ve begun the process of really finding out who I am and actually beginning to value myself as I haven’t before. I’ve begun discovering what I need from, and what I can authentically give to my relationship, the best way to handle myself emotionally in different situations, and how to deal with past issues and move forward from them more positively. Hannah’s coaching is different than any kind of therapy I’ve tried and it’s actually making a difference. I now have some great tools and more emotional intelligence than ever before as I move forward in life and love.” ~ Amanda, Toronto, Canada

"Though I was unsure if I could improve things in my marriage before taking the leap to coach with Hannah, the loving email I received from my husband yesterday--which took my breath away and made my heart skip a beat all at once-- was more than enough proof that the work I am doing on myself and our relationship in this program IS working.

    "After only a month working with Hannah, I am a calmer, more consistent version of myself. I am enjoying the shift in myself - it feels good to be able to tackle difficult and confronting situations in a different way, with calm and poise and grace - this is a HUGE change for me. And as a result my husband has shifted too - he has come forward, he has started to show me love and affection again, in his own way. He’s showing me small snippets of affection - holding my hand, wrapping his arm around my shoulder from time to time and has started to refer to ‘we’ and ‘us’ again, which had disappeared for a while. I know I am on my way back to a deep, loving relationship with him, and it feels so good." ~ Donna, Australia

Step 2. At the scheduled time of your call, we'll talk! You'll share with me more about your relationship, including what's hard and what you want more of. You'll have time to ask any questions you may have. We'll use the opportunity to make sure we are a good fit before we commit to working together. 

 

 

 

Step 3.Then we'll get started! If you decide to work with me, I'll tell you the exact steps for getting started. If you decide not to work with me or if we aren't a perfect fit, I'm happy to share other resources to help you get what you need.

READY TO GET STARTED? HERE IS HOW:

Step 1. Schedule a complimentary, no-obligation,  Love No Matter What Consult Call. You'll fill out a form and pick your time slot (before we hop on the phone, I'd like to know a bit about you and what you'd like to get out of working with me). 

You are very depressed or have a diagnosed mental illness (if this
is the case, please find a good therapist to help; that is what they excel at).
Your significant other is physically abusive, deeply invested in substance abuse, or a serial cheater. (Please find support with a therapist).
 
You hope that reading and listening and learning things passively will be enough to change your relationship dynamics. (You will need to be actively engaged and apply your learnings in real life)
 
You are more invested in venting than taking a deep look at how you can shift and grow to create a whole new beautiful dynamic between you (for both of your sakes).
 
You are unable to carve out a couple of hours a week to do the work it takes to create an intimate loving relationship.
You are not ready to do and see things differently, nor have your existing way of being in your relationship be challenged  and transformed, so you can feel the love you dream of become reality.
 Deep down you simply want to call it quits.
You are ready to grab life by the reigns and discover how much power you really have to shape your relationship into an incredibly supportive, loving, joy-filled and meaningful one 
You are in a committed relationship (or in a separation from one).
 
You are willing to step out of your comfort zone (as true growth can do) in order to reap the incredible reward of deeply connected loving. 
You are ready to invest your time and energy in yourself, your relationship, your family, and the health of our world by committing to doing the work it takes to vastly  improve your relationship (or, after having done so, be confident that you have done all you can possibly do so you can be at peace that the time has come to lovingly release it.)
You have two or more hours a week to spend on the program assignments outside of our calls together ( the more the better).
You are serious about creating the changes to make your long-held dream of a deeply loving relationship a reality.
THE TRUTH IS . . .
You have way more power than you can imagine to make your relationship happy, loving, and intimate.
Like other sensitive caring women who've gone through this process, you'll help both of you feel so much more relaxed and safe together than you do now, to actually enjoy your time together, to be so much more in control of your reactions, so you feel more peace and love between you, to enjoy snuggling and being physically intimate together, and to be able to handle difficulties between you in a way that brings you closer, so you both feel understood, supported and cherished for who really are--no matter what. That is the power you have when you Unleash Your Love.
FEEL READY TO UNLEASH YOUR LOVE?
(THAT NERVOUS-EXCITED FEELING IS LIKELY A SIGN YOU ARE!)
Find out for sure: 

"My relationship is way more harmonious. I feel so grateful." ~ Anjali Budreski, VT

Have questions? Email Hannah at  hannah@lifeisworthoving.com

For more about Hannah

and her story and reason for doing

this program click here