If you’ve been wondering why you feel distant, irritated, or “against” your partner — and how to reconnect , you’re not alone. So many sensitive women quietly struggle with this — but almost never name it out loud — even in loving marriages: it’s that moment when your husband suddenly feels like the problem . Not just “we’re having an issue,” but something deeper in your body: You feel against him. Closed. Tight. Like you’re no longer on the same side. And I want you to he