You already know that a good marriage takes work. But what if constantly working on your marriage can sometimes get in the way of it being good? For many highly sensitive women, taking their relationship seriously can easily turn into taking every problem, disappointment, unresolved issue, and imperfection seriously—more often than we need to. We think about what needs to change. We revisit the hard conversations. We notice what still isn't fixed. We keep working on it, becau