There’s something I see in almost every woman I work with when it comes to her marriage or relationship. . . A painful belief sitting underneath everything: "I’m just too sensitive." Too emotional. Too reactive. Too much. And usually, it comes with the hope: “If I could just calm down… if I could just be less sensitive… my relationship would finally feel better.” But hear me when I tell you: your sensitivity isn't the problem in your relationship. What’s actually happ