I relish being the only person in the whole house. I do my best work with that kind of space to think. My husband and I have both been wo...

As a fairly capable independent person, I used to think I could do most things by myself. I figured I could figure out how to run a littl...

In many of my earlier relationships, I thought the other person should be just slightly different, do things just a wee bit better, and t...

Sometimes putting a lot into our relationships can feel like exhausting work. You may find yourself sometimes wanting to throw in the tow...

As grown-ups we tend to forgot we aren't “just the way we are”. We rely on our sense of who we HAVE BEEN to determine who we CAN BE. You ...

If I’m super honest with myself, in my early romantic relationships I signed up to BE LOVED. I didn’t sign up to LOVE. Deep down I was mo...

Rummaging through an old box recently, I stumbled upon some old love letters between my first love and I. Reading them gave me a bit of a...

If you sometimes (or often), for whatever reason, can't quite feel the love you want to for your significant other, here's a story for yo...

The season of giving is wrapping up, but generosity never gets old. It's one of the most powerful forces to keep love alive. You know how...

You've heard the unwelcome news about romantic relationships before: you can’t (necessarily) change your partner. But here’s the profound...

To have an intimate loving thriving relationship, it’s a given we need to have a sense of emotional safety in it. We need it so we can fe...

Can sensitive people become less sensitive? That’s a question I’ve heard often. Most experts answer is, “No, you can’t”. But I have a sli...

You’ve heard me say it before, and it’s so essential I’ll say it again: having a loving lasting marriage is NOT a passive process. Why do...

If you feel unsatisfied, disappointed in, or frustrated at how things are going in your relationship— or like you and your partner are ju...

Are you ready to hear some comforting and encouraging words? Today I have for you the most inspiring, educational, and truly empowering a...

Does it seem like nothing is working to improve things in your relationship? I’ve been thinking about why that is, and what can help you....

If you're reading this it's because you want something to be better in your relationship, yes? There is something little, or something bi...

Here's a video I recorded on a recent Facebook Live to tell you a story that will help you see in action one of the most important concep...

If you sense that your husband or partner is having doubts about this marriage, if you worry he may want to leave, I have some insight fo...

Feel stressed or pressured a lot? Many of the women I interact with and coach feel a lot of stress in their lives, and they know it's imp...