Unsupported in Your Marriage? I Wish My Husband Had This Years Ago

Many highly sensitive women feel like they are doing the emotional work in their marriage alone. They long for a partner who listens, validates, and responds with empathy—but don’t know how to help their spouse get there. So they end up explaining things over and over--often with little change.

But explaining again and again is exhausting. And honestly, it can start to feel lonely and like you are unsupported in your marriage.

This is exactly why I created  The Supportive Partner Micro-Course. I wanted something simple, encouraging, and practical that partners would actually do.

Honestly, I wish my husband had this years ago. (Because it hits all the major issues that I felt I had to address on my own with him–the things I really value and crave relationally that he just wasn’t naturally great at.)

So a week or so ago, before sharing it widely, I gave it to my own husband. This is what happened:

He’s chipped away at the short lessons over a couple evenings. And already I feel big shifts in the way he is relating to me! Here's what’s already changing in our HSP marriage:

He’s more affectionate.

He’s validating my feelings a lot more.

He’s slowing down more rather than rushing to speak when I share something that's upsetting me.

I feel his presence more, like he's really HEARING my heart– versus that rush to counter what I'm saying, or voice his opinion.

I’m feeling safer, closer to him and…really hopeful! 

Because he’s taking things from this course I've always wanted for him to learn…but I was never able to get through to him before! This course is the thing that is finally breaking through.

 My hubby is especially focusing on lesson 3 and 4 – the areas I've felt he needed better skills the most. He has not mastered them yet, but, wow, the progress I already feel!!

Back to you:

The lessons in the micro-course cover the top issues not just in my own marriage–but the ones that I've found most often come up in marriages with HSP women – the issues that create wedges, pain, and disconnection for both partners.

This is for you if…

• You’re a highly sensitive or deep feeling woman who feels like you’ve been carrying most of the emotional growth in your marriage

• Your partner does want a good relationship, but doesn’t naturally know how to show up in the ways that help you feel safe and understood

• You’ve tried explaining, asking, and even pleading… and still feel alone

• You don’t want to push or criticize him

• You just want him to finally get it

When your spouse is finished with The Supportive Partner Micro-Course, he’ll be able to:

1. Understand your sensitivity (so he is kind and compassionate in times he wouldn’t have been in the past)

2. Give you the specific kinds of attention that fuel you feeling loved, valued, emotionally safe with him.

3. Show up with real empathy and offer validation to you in times you are feeling those big hsp feelings ( or smaller feelings).

4. End his defensiveness habit –and really LISTEN to you when you bring up something you’re unhappy with him about, so he can truly hear you, and make the changes you want. (Think no more silly escalation between you over little issues–instead, real progress around the small things that matter to you!)

5. De-escalate and gracefully navigate those harder moments that would have led to conflict, and repair the ones that do, so the more difficult moments help you build trust and closeness, instead of tearing you apart.

6. BONUS: Finally understand how to meet your sensitive body and heart in a way that stirs your desire, and creates the emotional intimacy you need to be truly turned on and feel sexy and adored in the bedroom. (i.e You'll get the kind of attention and connection you need for way better sex.)

If your partner was really skillful in just one of these areas, your marriage would feel 10x better day by day. 

Which one feels most important to you now? Give him the course just for that one issue to start.

Now imagine if he improved a lot in ALL 6 areas? How much calmer, closer, and more joyful would your everyday life together feel? This could be your marriage in just a couple weeks.

To get there, ask him to chip away at the other lessons after he’s worked on that first area that means so much to you…

…And soon enough, things will be feeling so much easier, softer, and sweeter between you. 

Learn more and get it for him here (scroll to the bottom for how to talk to him about it!). 

Or invite him to purchase it for himself via the loving invite link (it costs less than a dinner out, but will impact your life forever).

NOTE: THIS BECOMES ONLY AVAILABLE TO 1:1 CLIENTS ON February 25th. Get it while you can. 💕