I was once told that leaving my marriage was the only way I'd be happy again. By a therapist.
And I went ahead and believed it. Wow. My life would be totally different if I had not listened to her.
I now understand that not all so called experts know how to help with relationships.
Here’s a story about when I went to find help for my unsatisfying relationship, and how, instead of helping me see what is possible and guiding me to heal the relationship, my therapist urged me to give up.
What a mistake this was on her part, but also on mine for just going along with her.
See, it’s NEVER true there's nothing you can do to increase the love you feel in your life. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Not even a so called expert.
Listen to My Therapist Helped Ruin My Marriage by clicking the play button below.
I know it may almost seem easier to just end things than work to improve them. But it isn't. I have been through divorce (and a really loving kind one at that) and it WAS HARD and HEARTBREAKING for all involved. It's not a choice I recommend unless there is serious unresolvable substance abuse, or physical abuse involved.
Almost all marriages are "fixable". You can be happy in yours. When you set your mind and heart to it you can truly create the loving fulfilling relationship you want. I see it all the time. I'm here to help you do just that. Even if it seems impossible at the moment.
"When we first started working together there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point. It just blows my mind it's so good! I'm extremely grateful. The change in my husband, too, is not something I could have believed before. I know it's a direct result of the work I'm doing on myself with you". ~Donna, Client